Tuesday, May 30, 2023

Grace and Dolly: Here Comes the Bride!

Well into Spring, we are nearing the Summer Solstice on June 21rst, or Midsummer, as it was once known as long ago.  My curiosity was once again piqued, and I asked myself, Why on earth was the first day of Summer called Midsummer?  As it turns out, May the first was considered the beginning of summer centuries ago in Europe.  So, by June 21rst, it was mid-way through summer for them.  June is also well known as the month of brides - the June bride. 

As the old saying goes, "Oh, they say when you marry in June, you're a bride all your life, and the bridegroom who marries in June gets a sweetheart for a wife."  What a lovely thought to have.  Of course, we know this is but a saying, but when I was growing up, little girls were groomed to be brides one day.  Your wedding was to be the best and most glorious day of your life.  Dreams of wearing a satiny-lacey gown of white with a veil of flowing tulle upon your head was often enacted with curtains from the "costume box".

We played with bridal paper dolls and marched their two-dimensional figures down the pretend aisle.  What happened after that was never quite clear, but it did involve cooking and doing dishes - playing house.  We were taught that if we lived a virtuous life, stayed slim and knocked ourselves out with make-up and curlers, we'd one day land a handsome man who would love and care for us all the rest of our days.  I know what some of you are thinking.  Then again, I am musing.  And I spend a lot of my time musing and studying and reading and designing, and this is all play to me.

I never had that wedding.  The big one with the big dress and the guest list of 100 or more in attendance.  I went to a few of them, but this childhood dream would never be mine.  It was upon finding Tonner's Rayne's bridal doll outfit a few months ago, that inspired the little girl in me to once again dream of that special day.  I bought the outfit 

for Grace and planned a time to make a vignette for June.  As much fun as it was to display Dolly in the fairy costume, I needed to pack it up and get busy with some white silk and laces.

The tradition of the June Bride comes from ancient Rome.  In Roman times, they celebrated the goddess Juno and her husband Jupiter on the first day of June.  Juno was the goddess of marriage and childbirth, and it was said that those who married in June would be blessed with prosperity and happiness.  

It also dates back to times when most people lived off the land and depended on harvests for survival.  A June wedding meant that the woman would (hopefully) be newly pregnant in summer and still be able to help with manual work.  After a spring birth, the mother would be in good enough health to help with the next summer's harvest.  There is also a popular myth that in early medieval times, people only bathed once a year, usually

at the end of May or beginning of June, and they wanted to marry when they smelled the best.  While none of these things sounds terribly romantic, life was lived in practicality, and since we are here today, it must have worked.

Digging a little further, I found an interesting description on the concept of the honeymoon.  The word is Old English and was written as hony moone.  Hony refers to honey and the indefinite period of tenderness and pleasure experienced by the newlywed couple.  Moone refers to the fleeting amount of time that the sweetness would last.  While the term honeymoon has positive connotations today, back then it was a term to warn newlyweds about waning love.  

I also found the history of wedding cakes to be of interest.  The first tiered wedding cake originated in the late 18th c. when the tradition was first introduced.  The original design is attributed to a famous baker, Mrs. Raffald, who created a cake tower for the Duke and Duchess of Portland in 1791.  Each tier of the cake has its own

meaning.  The bottom tier would be served at the ceremony's main event, while the middle tier would serve as food to guests following the event.  The top tier would be served as food to guests after the event.  

In Roman times, they baked a cake of wheat or barley and would break the cake over the bride's head to signify good fortune.  Good heavens!  In medieval England, they built a cake of towering, spiced buns.  If the bride and groom could kiss over the tall stack, prosperity could begin to accrue over the course of their lives.  Is it any wonder why superstitions still exist?

If we keep digging into the traditions and their original meanings, it all becomes a bit complex.  The idea that it was bad luck for the groom to see his bride before their wedding, dates back to when marriages were arranged.  The father of the bride did not want the groom to see his bride in the case the girl was unattractive to him, and he decided to back out of the marriage contract.

While there is a fabulous history for every tradition associated with weddings, we must address that of the flower girl.

The flower girl can date back to Rome and Grecian times when the upper-class often included little girls in the procession.  They would walk ahead of the bride, showering her path with grains and herbs, which of course represented the hope that the woman would be fertile. 

The interpretation of the tradition loosened a bit during the Elizabethan era.  The inclusion of children at the wedding party itself was a reflection of how their culture idealized childhood, seeing children as symbols of hope and innocence.  Since the flower girl would proceed the bride down the aisle, she was meant to represent a younger, more innocent version of the bride, and a transformation from child to adult.

When I start to write these blogs, I never know which direction I

plan to go, but as a self-appointed "writer", I take off on the page where I normally cannot in person.  My thoughts do wander as I often have so much I wish to share.

So where did the tradition of having a dog at your wedding come in?  Well, to my knowledge, there isn't one.  But, if you are dog lover, like I am, and the event is outdoors, why not bring Muffy or Morris along if they are well behaved?  

After, and even before dressing Grace in the bridal gown, it was absolutely my intention to make Dolly Dingle into her flower girl.  And I would never, ever forget to include Remmie Lou, who stands in as the ring bearer.

Dolly's lovely gown is made up from Shantung silk with an overlay of dotted tulle and lace.  She wears silk slippers on her feet and carries a basket of posies.
Remmie Lou feels most important carrying the specially designed ring bearer pillow.  It is of the same silk with a bit of stuffing and pure silk ribbons tie the rings upon the pillow.  

I've never made a ring bearer pillow before, but I did a little search on them, and in light of how Remmie Lou may drool a bit, unintentionally of course, I kept it rather plain.
I thoroughly enjoyed making this vignette for June and couldn't wait to share it with you.  While I may not have had the opportunity or circumstances to have a traditional wedding of my own, I've had one through my dolls and it was delightful.  

Over the last couple of months, I collected a wide variety of vintage bridal images.  Ones that made me happy.  Ones that would express the beauty and joy the little girls inside of us dream of.  I hope you'll enjoy the selection.

I also included a photo of my 18" Kitty Collier and two of my Integrity Poppy Parker dolls in the bridal outfits Jason Wu designed for them.  My studio is strewn with rose petals for all the celebrating that has been done.

The illustrations while seemingly randomly shown, do offer a small timeline for the dreams of a child to a bride.

Wishing you a perfect ending to the month of May and an especially wonderful month of June ahead.  

"Something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue, a silver sixpence in your shoe!" Melissa

Honor Appleton's bridal play.

A child's dreams.

Paper dolls to dream by.



Someday this will be mine.

The engagement.

The hope chest.


The preparations.


Anything can go wrong!

The wedding cake.

With this ring, I thee wed.

Utter romance!

The garden reception.

The 1940's bride.

Photography

Who shall be next?

The beautiful bride.




Time to go.

One of the portraits.

Poppy Parker bridal dresses.

Kitty Collier (1950s)

Another studio portrait.

Bippity-Boppity-Boo!

Happily Ever After

The fairytale comes true.

Looking to a future of happiness.

 

Saturday, May 20, 2023

Ole Lukoje - A Tale of Sleep and Dreams by Hans Christian Andersen

"There's no one in the world who knows so many stories as Ole Luk-Oie.  He can tell capital histories." - HCA

I honestly can't recall my first memories of becoming enchanted with the story of Ole Lukoje, but undeniably, I can attribute the fascination with this magical little spirit, by the fanciful parasol or umbrella he holds above the sleeping nods of good little children.  Oh!  Wait a minute!  Didn't I just spell his name differently than that in the translation offered above?  Yes.  You will find his name spelled many different ways, primarily due to the translator of the stories by Hans Christian Andersen.  We know him most readily by the name of The Sandman.  

In 1971, the rock group known as America, released a song called Sandman, but upon listening to the words carefully, it has very little to do with our magic sprite.  "He rides the sky like an eagle in the eye of a hurricane that's abandoned."  Well, perhaps that stanza of lyrics can fit.

I understand there was also a recent movie called The Sandman (2017).  Some warped mind concocted this horror tale of a little girl who brings to life a monster from her nightmares, who brings harm to anyone who wants to hurt her.  The only relation here is that the Sandman is the bringer of dreams.

But who exactly is Ole Lukoje?  Here's another bit of trivia.  You won't find his story in many, if any, of the contemporary books of HCA tales.  And yet he's been around surely from the time Hans put these stories to paper.  When I began researching for this project, I was hunting down a book that would have this story in it.  Where I found it was in a much crumbling copy by McLoughlin Bros., first edition 1895.  This illustration, titled A Christmas Eve Dream, was in the front of the book as an introduction for the story much further within of Ole Lukoje.  I bought the book, read the story, and was much disappointed that it was only one of two color illustrations throughout the book.  The other being the cover, which was of Snow White.  Oh, do

confuse us more, please!  Snow White is Grimm!  The interesting thing about research is that the more answers you find, the more answers you seek.  So, who is Ole Lukoje and what exactly does he look like?  Let's get the truth from Hans.

"Towards evening, when the children still sit nicely at the table, or upon their stools, Ole Lukoje comes.  He comes up the stairs quite softly, for he walks in socks: he opens the door noiselessly, and whisk! he squirts sweet milk in the children's eyes, a small, small stream, but enough to prevent them from keeping their eyes open; and thus, they cannot see him."

"When the children sleep, Ole Lukoje sits down upon their bed.  He is well dressed: his coat is of silk, but it is impossible to say of what color, for it shines red, green, and blue, according as he turns.  Under each arm he carries an umbrella: the one with pictures on it


he spreads over the good children, and they dream all night the most glorious stories; but on his other umbrella nothing at all is painted: he spreads this over the naughty children, and these sleep in a dull way, and when they awake in the morning, they have not dreamed of anything."

It from his "magic squirt" that the stream of sweet milk to cloud their eyes comes from.  So, when you see something resembling a caulking tube or a hypodermic needle in Ole Lukoje's belt or hands, it's the magic squirt!  I find all this terribly fascinating!  With all the tales out there and all the many translations, and all the image interpretations, when it comes to bringing one to life in a doll, you might have to pick and choose aspects of what most appeals to you and what will bring the character to life for you.  This illustration on the right is my favorite.  I've had it in my archives for many years, and the beautiful parasol was the main and focal piece of my project.


Now I've indicated in prior posts that I've been working on parasols, and this was the reason why.  My first shot at it was with Cissy and her kimono for Cherry Blossom season.  There was also a large one made with circus animals and acrobats for a friend's birthday.  One with roses and butterflies as a gift for Easter and one for Ellowyne in Wonderland with Alice illustrations decoupaged on it from a book illustrated by Rene Cloke.  I figured that by now I should know what I'm doing to replicate in some fashion, the glorious parasol held by the tiny imp in the picture above.

I've also been reading, for the first time, Tales from the Arabian Nights and these are just as fascinating in their many translations over time.  But that is a blog for another time.  However, the illustrations by Harry G. Theaker (1873 - 1954), to me, are the most rich and glorious of them all.  And were perfect for the colorful 
story parasol.

You will notice, when you peruse the illustrations I've attached below in this blog, that many story parasols had an Asian or exotic theme to them.  I did include a mermaid for Hans though.  This project was all about the parasol.  It was the first thing I made, and this final version was my third attempt.  

What works for one type of parasol decorating will be different for another.  These are little paper parasols; the kind women often purchase for table favors at weddings.  For Ole Lukoje's, I painted it with my brilliant alcohol markers.  Then each tiny illustration was carefully sized and cut out and decoupaged on.  The border is a bit from a Persian design copied over and over again.  The parasol, since it is to remain opened, has been Mod Podged over for the final coat of decoupage,
sealing and shine.  The stem and ribs were painted black and sealed as well.  I think it took me two weeks to make this.  And four months in the research, examples and planning.

For Christmas, my dearest friend, Betsy, sent me this precious, 8" Maggie Iacono doll.  She was probably wondering what I might do with the doll, and here she has been turned into Ole Lukoje. 

The first thing I did was re-wig the doll.  Here, I learned something new.  I had purchased this little, vintage blonde wig that was on a crackly plastic form.  I was trying to get the mohair off the crackly plastic when I discovered that it was one long strand of curls, like fringe, wound round and round like hat braid.  Actually, this turned out to be great since I could wrap the curls around the head for a perfect fit.  

I can't stress this enough, but you cannot be afraid of ruining
a doll.  Not when you're going to give it a complete makeover.  You have to proceed carefully with curiosity and confidence.  I guess I've been doing this long enough to have some of that, but when it comes to Maggie Iacono dolls, an extra bit of care in handling is required.  These are wool covered, jointed dolls and very expensive.  I haven't ruined one yet.  Yet.  Won't happen.

I chose silk from my stash that had the two-toned sheen to it made by weaving two different colors of silk thread together.  Paying attention to Hans's description of the coat, I chose a raspberry and blue silk.  The short trousers are a weave of yellow and mango.  This way when he turns, the colors will "make-believe" change, as in the story.  
I gave him a gold belt, the kind the little sprite wears in my favorite illustration.  He also got a blue sleep cap for the same reason, but in a darker shade to bring out the blue in the parasol.

His cap is a fine velveteen lined in a similar shade of silk.  

This might be a good time to mention his accessories, other than that of the story parasol.  He carries his "dull" black umbrella in one arm and his magic squirt tucked into his belt.  The umbrella is one that came from an Integrity doll.  A male doll.  

I can't tell you just how long I puzzled over this one umbrella accessory.  I have other little working umbrellas that came out of China that were considered 1:6 scale - for Barbie sized dolls.  This one is just a little bigger.  Some have larger tips than others.  Some have smaller curved handled stems.  Selecting the right sized doll with the right sized umbrella took some work.  I 

refused to begin the project until I was certain I had the right combination.  As it turns out, this black umbrella works as a wonderful stand or prop to keep the doll from falling over.  It just worked out well in many ways.  I was lucky.

I hadn't even thought about how the doll would hold the parasol up until the last.  I was not giving up at this point.  I simply sewed the stem to the wool covering the hands.  Gently and with purpose of course.  I used a thread that matched the wool then carefully blacked the thread over the stem of the parasol so it would not show.
Why do I always share the shoes last?  Because they are generally the last thing I make.  I thought about green shoes.  I thought about adding a tassel or star to the tip of the sleep hat, too.  But I chose to make the slippers from the same gold goat skin leather as the belt.  And leave the sleep cap simple because seriously, it's all about the parasol!

As I carefully place this crumbling McLoughlin Bros. book on the shelf among my other antiquarian children's books, I think back on all the research I did on this project.  I found so very many bits of paraphernalia attributed to the Sandman, but the one I really wanted was just a picture on Pinterest.  It was a hand-blown glass ornament, and I swear that if it ever comes up for auction, I don't care how much I have to pay for it.  I must have it.  These are the words and promise of a true collector!
In the illustrations and ephemera below, you'll see some of the various interpretations of Ole Lukoje.  He is not as well-loved and represented in the states as he is in Europe and Russia.

In the mix are decorative plates, silverware for children, night lights, book covers, porcelain figurines, and what I would refer to as illustrations and paintings inspired by the story.  For example, the first painting is of a child sleeping under a parasol very much like that in my favorite illustration of Ole Lukoje.  Do you not find that interesting? In the very last image, there is a colorful umbrella over a bed.  You can't tell me that this is not attributed to our magical sprite.  I'm tickled by the illustrations that are more contemporary like the one from the 1960's.  

I might also add that when you see the little boy, Hjalmar, being pulled through the picture frame, this is part of the story Hans told.

These are a selection from about 70-plus images I saved off the Internet.  It's fun to know that I am not alone in my enthusiasm for Ole Lukoje, although when I speak of him, people look at me like I've gone half cracked.  That's the life of an artist.

As Hans would say, Farvel!  Melissa

Similar sleep parasol















Notice the magic squirt!




Royal Copenhagen.  My favorite.


The coveted ornament.



1960's kitsch.

A wood cut out.




Asian influence.